Saturday, August 12, 2006
Another day at ballet again today. ms ong appeared today! and good thing. nothing bad happened :) so today was a good day! if things go on like that, i'd soon be back to the happy self i was before!!
let's wait and see for monday's class. oh but one thing. it sounds totally crazy if i really have to skip all my mondae n wed evening lectures!
took a long train ride up again to and from tampines!!!!
and on the train i saw two couples. one cute secondary school couple who were on their way to watch the 9pm fireworks. and later on, another couple, slightly older. but i think what caught my attention was just the pink shirt the girl was wearing.
and funnily enough what suddenly popped into my head was -'hmm..are these people happy?'
because people go into relationships seeking higher happy feeling status! the thought of a relationship with a boy/girl would naturally make people think they'd feel happier right?
and so i think i wanna formulate a thesis!
apart from
'the chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever'
the second chief end of -a- man.
is to
'make a girl happy'
simple as that.
so to any male out there. i think that's the most impt thing they should work on. if they wanna pursue a girl.
if you do come across a happy-go-lucky girl as most girls are, due to lovely things like sugar and chocolate, don't go and straight away think..ooh! this girl is so fun! she'll be great!
but rather you should think harder and ponder on this :' die! she's already so hAppy as she is. can i make her happier than that?what if i make her less happy? oh no oh no..'
yes. please bother to consider this advise and think upon those lines.
i suppose its even scarier to go after a happy and 'all things nice' girl because you may just be that sore Thorn to spoil it all for her.as easy and easier it looks.
and please don't suppose you can judge for yourself when you see how she reacts to you when you're finally in a relationship with her because, girls.. don't know how to differentiate happy or happier or sad when they're stuck in some comittment to you!
they'll be busy thinking of you you and you. hahah. so can you imagine if you're the cause of their immediate sadness? oh the disaster you're stupidly creating for her!
so that was just my two cents worth!
charlene said a lil' prayer for you at 11:47 PM